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April 13, 2011

When we find someone whose uniqueness is in line with our's ...

we join him and fall into a similar oddity

called LOVE ...

There are things that do not want us to disconnect,

People who do not want us to leave ...

But remember ... that's not the end of the world ..

but the beginning of a

new life ..

Happiness is for those who cry,

those who hurt,

those who have been looking ...

those who have been wanting..

and those who have tried ..

Because they can appreciate

how important the people who have touched their lives ..

What is SUPREME LOVE?

Is when you shed tears and still care about it ..

It is when he does not care about you and you are still waiting..

Is when he began to love others and you can still smile as you say

"I'm so happy for you."

If love does not work ...

Free yourself, let your heart spread its wings and fly...

to be wild again ...

Remember ... that you may find love

and lost ..

But when love is gone .. you do not need to die too...

Strongest people is not those who always win ..

remain rigid when they fall.

in the course of life, you learn about yourself

and realize that regret is not supposed to be there.

It is only eternal appreciation for choices you've made.

True Friends ...

understand when you say

"I forgot .."

Wait forever when you say

"Wait a minute...."

Staying when you say

"Leave me alone"

Opening the door even though you don't knock and say 'Can I come in? "

Loving ...

It is not how you forget .. but how you forgive ..

It is not how you listen to .. but how do you Understand.

It is not what you see .. but what you Feel ..

It is not how you let go .. but how you Survive.

More dangerous if you shed tears in the heart ... compared to cry

Cry...that flow can be wipe

While a tear in the heart..

which carve hidden wounds will never be lost ..

In matters of love, we rarely win ..

But when Love is Sincere,

despite losing, you still win just because you're happy ...

loving someone more than you love yourself ..

There comes a time where you have to stop loving someone

not because people stop loving us

But because we realize

that person will be happier if we let go.

Posted by Lawrence Corpuz. Posted In : All About Life

Are You Being Too Hard on Yourself?

April 8, 2011

Most of us are subject to guilt feelings. We may be spending so much time feeling guilty everyday. Guilt for the most part is very constructive. It's an important civilizing influence that keeps people from hurting, distressing or disappointing others. However, the system that works for good can also malfunction.

If your guilt feelings don't lessen after you've tried to make amends, or if you are feeling guilty for things you can't control, you're probably suffering from false guilt, whic...

Posted by Lawrence Corpuz. Posted In : All About Life

How could someone with so little be so happy?

April 5, 2011

"Thank you, Sir. Praise the Lord!" the old beggar exclaimed in clear English as I shove a five-peso coin into his hand. I was on my way to meet a friend at a restaurant near Raja Solaiman Park one rainy October day when I chance upon the kindly old man, charming passers-by for alms with his tooth-less smile and sunny disposition.

Minutes later, as I sat comfortably in the restaurant with my friend, the memory of the old man lingered in my mind. After our meal, we go to the spot where I left...

Posted by Lawrence Corpuz. Posted In : All About Life

A Tell Tale Story

April 1, 2011

"True!–nervous–very, very dreadfully nervous I had been and am; but why will you say that I am mad? The disease had sharpened my senses–not destroyed–not dulled them. Above all was the sense of hearing acute. I heard all things in the heavens and in the earth. I heard many things in hell. How, then, am I mad?"

"…Now this is the point. You fancy me mad. Madmen know nothing. But you should have seen me. You should have seen how wisely I proceeded–with what caution–with what fores...

Posted by Lawrence Corpuz. Posted In : All About Life

In My Humble Opinion

April 1, 2011

About the only thing I don't have a strong opinion on is why there is even a small percentage of people out there who always respond to surveys with "no opinion." Yet there they are, in every poll, the no-opinion people. A question could be as simple as "Is Michael Jackson dead?" or "Is durian truly edible?" and this people will have nothing to say, either way. Most of us are just brimming with beliefs, attitudes, judgement calls and crank theories. We freely give our wisdom in bars, on radio...

Posted by Lawrence Corpuz. Posted In : In My Opininon

It's the Making of Resolutions that Counts

March 29, 2011

A friend recently told me that he saw the picture I've posted on my facebook. Its about my New Year's resolution to quit on my smoking habit.At first, I've tried to keep that resolution. Every year, I produce a sadly familiar repertoire of aspirations dealing with that bad habit. I always mean well, but it's clear that I lack firmness of purpose.Well, to my mind, thats the essence of New Year's Resolution. It's a wet sponge, slurping up the black marks of the past, leaving a clean slate for t...

Posted by Lawrence Corpuz. Posted In : All About Life

FAKE (a diary of mine 2007)

March 29, 2011

Fake, thats all i am

My meaningless smile,

My hollow laugh,

It’s all an act.

Outside I’m happy

Inside i’m not,

My life is empty

My soul is dead.

I hide all the sadness,

I don’t want people to care,

I’m a useless cause

My sadness, I will not share.

As the emotions get stronger,

I have but one release

With one quick slash,

I finally Rest In Peace.

crash.. slit my wrist and calm down. 12x

and the pills sliding down my throat, with the liquid shamp0o.

pushing it down through my st0mach, i was blind, i...

Posted by Lawrence Corpuz. Posted In : Featured Articles from Friends

Rising Spirit

March 28, 2011

The rhythm of my hand goes well with the drops of ink and with words floating in my brain. I do not have highfaluting words to speak of, instead, the way of my emotions and the labyrinth that my soul’s going through are the ones obliging me to put the significance of other’s life into scriptures. But, ironically, I do not find my life as important as others do consider it. The poetry of contrast the world has offered me evoked my sensations to be involved in its abyss. In there I grew, l...

Posted by Lawrence Corpuz. Posted In : All About Life

Tips From A Successful Slacker

March 28, 2011

Need to look busier? Make sure your office appears swamped at all times. Your desk should always look like you're in the midst of some incredibly time-sensitive project. This way you can safely maximize the time you spend checking your facebook.
For added protection, make sure the papers on your desk are arranged in stacks. A calculator, a few stray apples and a strategically placed pair of eyeglasses will round out the organized chaos effect.
Finally, some work on your computer screen that yo...
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Posted by Lawrence Corpuz. Posted In : All About Life

Its a Game...

March 28, 2011

Win-win.

Win-lose.

Lose-lose.

We all hear that terms not just on games we play but also on our every day play of the game called LIFE.

What does it mean, one may ask. Well, if I’m the one to answer, it refer to the possible outcomes of a game or dispute involving two sides, and more importantly, how each side perceives their outcome relative to their standing before the game.

For example, a “win” results when the outcome of a negotiation is better than expected, a “loss” when the out...

Posted by Lawrence Corpuz. Posted In : All About Life

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